Being Polite

Being Polite

  • Fundamental to demonstrating politeness in French, is using the right form of ‘you’. French has two forms: ‘tu’ and ‘vous’. ‘Tu’ is used in informal situations or with people you are familiar with, while ‘vous’ is used in formal situations or with strangers and elders.

  • Be sure to use polite expressions when appropriate. Key phrases include ‘s’il vous plaît’ (please), ‘merci’ (thank you), ‘excusez-moi’ (excuse me), ‘je suis désolé’ (I’m sorry), and ‘pardon’ (pardon).

  • When entering or leaving a shop, it’s customary to greet or bid farewell to the shopkeepers by saying ‘bonjour’ (good day) or ‘au revoir’ (goodbye).

  • French people place a lot of importance on table manners. Learn phrases such as ‘puis-je commencer?’ (may I start?), ‘c’était délicieux’ (that was delicious), and ‘puis-je être excusé de la table?’ (can I be excused from the table?)

  • Remember to use the correct form of address. Titles like ‘Monsieur’ (sir), ‘Madame’ (madam), and ‘Mademoiselle’ (miss) are commonly used in formal situations.

  • To understand the rules of social interaction better, consider diversifying your learning material with real-life content such as French films, music, and literature. This not only broadens your vocabulary but also helps you understand the nuances of the French culture and etiquette.

  • As in many cultures, interrupting someone while they are talking is considered rude in French conversation. Use phrases such as ‘puis-je ajouter quelque chose?’ (may I add something?) when you want to interject.

  • Consistency in practising this part of the French language cannot be overemphasised. Regularly engage in listening and speaking exercises and also make an effort to incorporate these polite expressions into your spoken French.

Remember, understanding and practising politeness can greatly enhance your communication with native French speakers. This will help you not just in your exams, but also contribute to a better overall understanding of the French language and culture.