Relationships in families and households

Relationships in families and households

The Family: Internal Relationships

  • Family structures shape the nature of relationships between family members. For instance, a nuclear family often features strong bonds between parents and children.
  • The emotional division of labour, which stresses the balance of emotional tasks and expression within the household, is an important component of family dynamics.
  • The position of power within a family often depends on factors such as gender, age, and economy, influencing the relationships between family members.
  • The symmetrical family concept, coined by Willmott and Young, suggests a trend towards shared roles and increased equality within family households.

Parent-Child Relationships

  • Primary socialisation, a key aspect of the sociology of childhood, is the process through which children adopt the values and norms of their family setting.
  • The child-parent relationship can be influenced by parenting styles, varying from authoritative to indulgent, each shaping children’s behaviour and family dynamics differently.
  • The ever-changing role of childhood and the shift in children becoming more privatised and protected alter parent-child relationships.

Sibling Relationships

  • Sibling relationships represent some of the longest and most influential kinship bonds, contributing to socialisation and shaping familial roles.
  • The birth order theory by Adler suggests that the order in which siblings are born has a major impact on their personality development and interactions.

Roles, Rights and Responsibilities within Family

  • Responsibilities, roles, and rights can be determined by factors such as age, gender, or socio-economic positioning within the family.
  • The domestic division of labour refers to the split of tasks, roles, and duties within a household. This has evolved over time, with an increase in dual earner families and men taking on more domestic responsibilities.
  • The role of grandparents has evolved, often becoming secondary caregivers and imparting cultural and family traditions, significantly shaping family dynamics.

Marriages and Partnerships

  • Marriages and partnerships constitute valuable social structures, often reinforcing social norms and expectations.
  • The concept of living apart together (LAT) signifies couples who are in a relationship but retain separate households.
  • The shift from traditional nuclear family values has led to more acceptance of cohabitation, impacting family relationships.

Domestic Abuse in Families

  • While often hidden, domestic abuse directly affects the familial relationships and overall family dynamics.
  • Barring physical forms, abuse can also be emotional, controlling or coercive, with profound implications on the health and wellbeing of family members.