Relationships and Families

Section: Basic Understanding of Relationships and Families

• Within Hinduism, families and relationships are considered the cornerstone of a wholesome life.
• The religion upholds duty (Dharma), righteousness and respect as fundamental values in all relationships.
• Believe in the concept of Ashrama Dharma, the four stages of life, including the householder stage, where one is expected to marry and raise a family.

Section: Marriages in Hinduism

• Marriage is considered a sacred union, more of a sacrament than a contract.
• Arranged marriages are common, basing on compatibility of both the individuals and families.
• Recognises the role of husband and wife as complementary, not competing.
• Practise the Seven Vows (Saptapadi) during wedding ceremony symbolising commitment and responsibilities towards each other.

Section: Views on Family Life

• Familial relations are marked by mutual love, respect, and consideration.
• Importance is given to duties and responsibilities within the family known as ‘Sva-Dharma’.
• Extended family system encourages living together with all generations, fostering support and caring for each other.

Section: Sex and Sexual Ethics

• Sexual behaviour is governed by the concept of Dharma.
• Sex is seen as a sacred act within the institution of marriage for procreation.
• Condemn pre-marital and extramarital relationships as it is against Dharma and disrupts the social order (Rta).

Section: Views on Divorce and Remarriage

• Generally, divorce is not favoured; instead strive for reconciliation.
• However, in situations of extreme distress, divorce is permitted but kept as a last resort.
• There is no scriptural prohibition against remarriage after death or divorce of a spouse, although it is not widely practised.

Section: Attitudes towards Homosexuality

• Traditionally, homosexuality has been a complex subject in Hinduism, with diverse views.
• Some scriptures are silent on homosexuality, some condemn and some provide spaces for gender diverse figures.
• Modern Hindus might have varying views about homosexuality influenced by their personal beliefs and the society they live in.

Section: Gender Equality in Relationships and Families

• The Bhagavad Gita asserts the equal presence of the divine in both men and women.
• The society is often patriarchal, but changes are occurring in both roles and attitudes towards men and women.
• Women are increasingly gaining respect and recognised for their roles in society and within the family, which relates back to increasing awareness of gender equality.